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Dear Parents/Carers,
There has been quite a lot in the media recently about how hard it can be for both children and adults to transition back to school and work. Although many relish the fact that life is getting back to normal, for others, the time at home and involved in a less busy and demanding lifestyle has been welcomed and the return has brought feelings of apathy, sadness and anxiety.
It’s very normal for children and young people to experience re-entry anxiety following a pandemic. Here are some things that can help:
- Be curious
Ask open questions and actively listen to understand more about your child’s thoughts and feelings. - Normalise and validate their feelings
This means letting them know that what they are feeling is normal, other people feel the same way and that there is nothing wrong with their feelings. For example, “It must be hard to have so many worries, but it’s normal to worry about getting sick when you go back to school.” - Help them limit exposure to media
If they are younger, this might include reducing their exposure to the news. If they are older, it might be helping them to critically think about media messages they are exposed to or ensuring they are accessing reputable sources. - Take small steps to re-integrate into society
Some fears can be alleviated with small, controlled exposures. For example, if they are feeling overwhelmed will all the children at school, or organising for your child to meet and hangout with one or two friends after school or on the weekend can help. - Problem-solve any concerns together
A lot of children’s main fears revolve around bullying, conflict with friends, or school related stress and this is contributing to their anxiety around going back to ‘normal’. Talking through strategies together can help your child improve their problem-solving skills and feel more empowered.
It’s ok to not have all the answers. If your child asks a question you can’t answer, or needs help with something you don’t know how to solve, be honest. It’s a great opportunity to do some research and learn something new together. (source Kids Helpline)
Not all children are feeling this way. Some children are resilient by nature – their temperament helps them to be mentally and psychologically tough. They get straight back up after a setback or disappointment. Rejection in the playground doesn’t faze them. Unfortunately, not every child has such natural resilience. Building resilience is an important attribute that school and home can work together on. Research shows that resilience can be nurtured and developed, particularly when parents themselves are resilient and they actively foster it in their children.
Resilient children share four basic skill sets - independence, problem-solving, optimism and social connection. From a resilience perspective parents and teachers need to coach children through some of their more challenging moments and reviewing what they may have learned for next time. We must avoid solving all their problems for them.
We can promote a lasting sense of resilience in our children by:
- Having a positive attitude ourselves. Our attitude as parents / carers and teachers impacts on their ability to bounce back from some of the difficulties they face.
- Make sure you model a ‘you can do it’ attitude for your child when he meets some of life’s curve balls.
- Look for teachable moments. Many children’ learning opportunities are disguised as problems. Make the most of these opportunities so that children can grow and learn from some of the challenges they face.
- Make children active participants in the family. Active participation in a family develops the self-help, problem-solving and independence skills of children that are necessary for resilience.
- Build children’s coping skills. There are plenty of strategies we can pass on to children to help them cope when life doesn’t go their way, including acceptance, getting away for a while, and normalisation.
- Promoting resilience in children is a not a single event but a continuous process that requires adults to be supportive and empathetic when things don’t go their way. It also requires you as a parents and us as teachers to have an understanding of resilience, so we have faith in ourselves, and your child’s ability to cope. (Source Michael Grose)
Back to a five day week next week! How will we do it?
May God bless you and your family,
Ursula Jamieson
Principal
RE Week 7 - Be still and know that I am God
Sacramental Program Update
After meeting with Fr Peter, we have decided to keep the Eucharist program as per the original dates. The only difference may be how the Sacrament is celebrated. We will decide this closer to the day. It may involve the inclusion of several masses for smaller numbers of people. We will keep you updated as the situation progresses. The dates for Eucharist are as follows.
Parent Information Night Term 3 Week 2 Wednesday 29th July
Presentation Mass Term 3 Week 2 - 1st and 2nd August
Home Night 1 Term 3 Week 4 beginning 10th August
Home Night 2 Term 3 Week 5 beginning 17th August
Home Night 3 Term 3 Week 6 beginning 24th August
Family Prayer Night Term 3 Week 6 Wednesday 26th August
Retreat Day Term 3 Week 8 Friday 11th September
Sacrament Term 3 Week 8 Sunday 13th September
Reconciliation will be moved to early Term 4 and dates will be provided as soon as they have been confirmed. Thank you for your patience in this matter.
Our Community
The staff of St Thomas gather each week to pray and to reflect on our many blessings. We bring to mind the many blessings we experience each day in working with the students and families of the St Thomas the Apostle community. We keep each of you in our hearts and in our prayers.
Penny Vanzwol
REC
With the colder weather, the Library will open before school on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays. This is for quiet reading and drawing time only.
Thank you to all of the families who have taken the reading challenge on board! It is great to see so many children enthusiastic about reading. Keep it up!
Penny Vanzwol
Happy Birthday to the following students/staff who are celebrating a birthday this week
Lewis Rice | Jack Perkins | Chantel Edmond | Ava Harradine |
Liam Fuller | Claire van der Linden |